Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Bring it on...

I know friendship and Love's supposed to be all Rosy and Giving and Selfless. That's what they say.

BUT.

I will go only a certain length. I promise to be your friend or lover till the point that there still exists Respect. I Promise to understand your moods and tantrums only till the time that they seem reasonable. I will come back to you after you hurt me only till when I can forgive you again. I will not forgive and forget things that dont deserve it, or repeated mistakes. I will hold on only till the time your holding the other end as tight as I am.

I will let go if I feel you dont deserve me. I wont be there always. There is no forever. You cant just come and go. Shutting out is not a solution. If it was, no one would ever let in. Somethings DON'T get undone. And, there's a window - a window for things to get undone, for things to unhurt, for things to be unsaid and a relationship to rebuild. If you miss that Window, you remain on the outside.

The Good news? There's a choice always. Inside or out?

13 comments:

"SunShine" said...

Somebody is pissed off ? :)

and thanks for the award babe !!

hitch writer said...

Bad mood today dear ??

Serendipity said...

Sunshine - :) Congrats!

@ Hitchwriter and Sunshine - Irritated is more like it. Its more like Im telling myslf these things out loud than telling anyone else. :)

Smita said...

Awww!!! Who brought this out???

Gimme his/ her address I'll gp spank him/ her :-)

And on a serious note, it is good to blurt it out it lightens our heart :-)

Serendipity said...

hahaha :) tell me about it, a good long rant is very refreshing :)

Aditya said...

I used to be a sucker for this - I would forgive endless transgressions from 'friends' after a certain period of time; only to get back to square one again. And too often I was used only as a shoulder to weep on (because I am told I'm a good listener) so I was the perpetual foul-weather-only friend.

Well, fuck that shit. I have only so much time in the world, and I'm going to keep it for people who call once in a while to see how I'm doing, not just because they're in trouble.

Piper .. said...

totally agree. There`s only so much one can bend. You cant really take things for granted in any relationship, all the time. Once acceptable. Twice even. Maybe thrice.. But beyond that, it can get to unforgivable proportions.

eye-in-sty-in said...

LOVED IT!

Serendipity said...

@ Aditya - I still am sometimes!! your right about the time and whom it should be spent on.

@ Piper - Absolutely. once there's a wall, its tough to move past, only maybe with herculean efforts which the wrong party should be wilign to undertake :) And im not restricting myself to relationships as in boyfriend girlfriend.
Thsi applies to friends too.

@ Eye-in - yay a Ferrari fan! me too!! HUGE :)

I Walk Alone!!! said...

":)" thats all you need to change things for yourself and around...

Abhishek said...

:)...we need to talk sometime.. :)...Hope ur fine!!!

Serendipity said...

@ Dontwalkalone - im gonna call u DWA from now on. :)

Abhi - yep, thought about you the other day. did u see R's wedding snap? I lost my phone and numbers. pls to be callng me up. u know mine!

Imp's Mom said...

ahhh...been there and then been there too...i no longer speak with "friends" who think of me only when they want to rant or are generally pissed off and need a shoulder. If you cant find the time to drop in a hello, even when connected on orkut or facebook then I don't want to take te time to meet and call you.

Learnt it the hard way :P but then these lessons are learnt the hard way only. :)